Independent Ceremonies

Coming of Age - Menopause - Conscious Uncoupling

Coming of Age Ceremony

A Coming of Age Circle brings young people together in a shared, supportive space as they approach a life threshold—whether that’s adolescence, adulthood, or another form of becoming. These group ceremonies blend storytelling, wisdom sharing, and symbolic acts, often incorporating parents, mentors, or a chosen community. They’re inclusive of all identities, guided gently, and tailored to the spirit and culture of the group. Perfect for schools, rites-of-passage retreats, sibling groups, or friendship circles.

This is more than a celebration—it’s a sacred pause. A Becoming of Age ceremony gently marks the shift from childhood to adolescence, or from adolescence into early adulthood. Whether the moment feels like a quiet evolution or a bold step forward, it deserves to be honoured with care, reflection, and community.

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These ceremonies offer symbolic acts, storytelling, personal reflections, and meaningful rituals that support emotional growth and honour identity. A candle can be lit for each quality emerging. Words of blessing can be offered by family or chosen guides. Gifts of significance may be given to mark the moment.

It’s an experience that gives both the young person and their loved ones a way to process change, deepen connection, and celebrate who they’re becoming, with love, not expectation.

You can click through to explore how we can create a personalised ceremony to honour this sacred transition for a twenty-minute consultation.

Click to explore how we can co-create a communal ceremony that honours each young person as they step into their next phase of life.

Coming Of Age

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girl running while laughing with her friends actively engaged in a playful game
Coming of Age Ceremony for Girls

This is a sacred moment to honour a girl’s transition—not only in her body, but in her confidence, her voice, and her sense of belonging. The ceremony makes space for her unfolding identity and the wisdom she carries as she grows. Symbolic acts may include a blessing by maternal figures, a water ritual for renewal, or gifting a journal or keepsake that acknowledges her inner life.

Aunties, elder sisters, mothers, or chosen guides can offer affirming stories, encouragement, and shared experience, giving her an embodied sense of womanhood that is nurturing, not performative. This ceremony is a gift to her and a grounding moment for those who love her.

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shallow focus photo of young blond girl in black coat standing on a bridge
Coming of Age Ceremony for Non-Binary or Gender-Diverse Youth

This ceremony offers a safe and sacred space for young people who don’t fit traditional gender roles or who are exploring who they are. It acknowledges their becoming without trying to define it.

Together, we create a ceremony that reflects their truth: this might include candle-lighting for personal strengths, music or art that reflects their identity, or guided words from a chosen guide, friend, or caregiver.

Supported guides—such as parents, siblings, teachers, or spiritual companions—may be invited to offer affirmations that celebrate fluidity, courage, and self-expression. This ceremony is about being seen without assumptions, and honoured without conditions.

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group of group of young kids outside holding aloft a multi coloured cloth above their heads in union
Coming of Age Ceremony for Boys

This ceremony creates space for a boy to step into selfhood, not through pressure, but through presence. It’s a time to acknowledge emotional maturity, integrity, and the values he’s beginning to carry.

Symbolic rituals might include a mentor offering a spoken blessing, the passing of an object with generational meaning, or a fire-based ritual honouring courage and purpose.

Trusted male figures—fathers, uncles, mentors—are invited to share affirming words, lessons, or guidance, offering the boy a sense of belonging to something greater than himself.

For parents, this ceremony provides a grounding way to support their son through change, with heart, presence, and pride.
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fair hair boy in gray crew neck shirt looking into the camera

Coming of Age Circle

A Coming of Age Circle brings together young people—and those who walk beside them—for a collective rite of passage. This can be offered within a friendship group, family community, school, or spiritual circle. These ceremonies often include story-sharing, creative reflection, symbolic acts (like hand circles, blessing stones, or fireside offerings), and affirmations from mentors, guardians, or peers. The circle holds space for each young person’s voice, journey, and identity. It allows them to be supported as a group while still honouring their individuality. It’s especially powerful for those whose families want to mark this transition with gentle, inclusive, and sacred intention.

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A Community Ceremony to Witness Growth and Welcome the Next Chapter

Menopause Ceremony

A Sacred Pause to Honour Change, Release, Rebirth & Becoming
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tattoo of a red rose on a womens lower abdomen

This ceremony is a powerful invitation to witness what is passing, to honour what remains, and to reclaim what is rising within you. Because this is not just a biological shift—it is a rite of passage. Whether it has arrived naturally, surgically, prematurely, or in ways you didn’t expect, this threshold deserves to be marked—not with shame or silence, but with sacredness, reverence, and renewal.

Across ancient cultures, this stage of life was revered. In Indigenous and ancestral communities around the world, a woman’s transition into menopause signified a shift into wisdom and spiritual authority. She was no longer defined by fertility, but by insight, presence, and power. Elders, midwives, and medicine women were often post-menopausal, honoured for their perspective and held as spiritual anchors for their community.

Modern life has lost much of that reverence, but we don’t have to lose the ritual.

Purpose of ceremony: To mark and honour the physical, emotional, and spiritual transition into menopause, creating space for reflection, release, and renewal.

Nature of the ceremony: Rooted in compassion and ritual, this ceremony creates a space for grief, gratitude, and growth through a sharing circle or meditative practices, tailored entirely to the needs of the woman or group being honoured and celebrated.

This isn’t a course. It’s not a programme. You’re not here to be fixed or improved.

This is a ceremony
A sacred container where you are witnessed, not managed.
Held, not analysed.
Celebrated, not compared.
This ceremony is a powerful invitation to witness what is passing, to honour what remains, and to reclaim what is rising within you.
Because this is not just a biological shift—it is a rite of passage. And when we treat it that way, everything changes.

Menopause Ceremonies

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a person holding her heart and centre
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woman in nude coloured dresses making a packed with hands together in circle

Why This Ceremony Exists
In a world that tells us to hide, hurry, or medicate our way through menopause, this ceremony slows you down long enough to hear your soul.
It reminds you that you are not broken—you are becoming.

Because your transformation deserves to be met with honour.
And you deserve to walk through it feeling
empowered, not erased.

Let’s mark this threshold as it was always meant to be: with intention, depth, and the sacred recognition of a life in bloom, just in a new season.

If you're ready to honour your menopause journey, I'd be honoured to facilitate your ceremony in circle with other women.

Who Is This For?
This ceremony is for you if;

  • You’re peri-, post-, or in the midst of menopause

  • You’ve experienced a hysterectomy or surgical menopause

  • You feel unseen, unsure, or surprisingly strong

  • You crave ritual, acknowledgement, or emotional release

  • You want to cross this threshold with power, not passivity


You don’t have to know exactly what you need.
You just need to know this moment matters.

Ceremony Format Options
Held one-to-one or within a sacred circle

  • Offered online or in person (when available)

  • Fully tailored to your personal journey and spiritual outlook

  • Can include symbolic rituals, meditation, sound, sharing, anointing, or movement

Whether private or communal, your ceremony is co-created with deep listening and love.

Key Benefits:

– Creates emotional closure for what’s been lost and changing, before empowering what’s emerging
– Offers validation and celebration in a world that often silences menopausal voices
Reconnection to your body, voice, and personal power
– Fosters connection within oneself, with other women/ shared sisterhood and ancestral wisdom (when in circle)
– Reframes menopause as a sacred, powerful threshold rather than an ending.
A renewed sense of self, not lost, but reshaped and reclaimed
– Clarity on What's Next

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sand cave in a heart shape
Conscious Uncoupling

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Conscious Uncoupling Ceremony

Ending with Intention. Honouring What Was
Creating Space for What Comes Next

Honour the Ending. Release with Grace. Step Forward with Clarity.

Not all endings need to be messy or heavy with regret. A Conscious Uncoupling Ceremony provides you with the space to honour a relationship for what it was, acknowledge its importance, and release it with care and compassion.

Whether you are parting ways as romantic partners, spouses, or co-parents, this ceremony is an emotionally intelligent way to bring closure. It allows you to reflect on the journey, express gratitude where it's possible, and gently mark the shift from togetherness to independence.

Together, we’ll create a bespoke ceremony that centres truth, dignity, and healing. It may include symbolic rituals, private vows of release, shared blessings, or parenting intentions—whatever feels most supportive to your process.

This ceremony doesn’t deny grief or challenge. It meets them with presence, offering a conscious container for letting go and beginning again. It’s for those brave enough to end with love, and wise enough to know that endings deserve ceremony too.

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